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Sunday, December 14, 2008

Our 2008 Christmas letter

Where has the time flown? It hardly feels like a year since Maarten and I survived Christmas in Canada and 1 week in Portland Oregon where he attended some meetings regarding an American dredging ship. We had 6 days at the Marriot Waterfront – what an amazing hotel with amazing views of Mount Hood. We felt very spoiled by our visit. After having a year like 2007 with Maarten having an aneurysm it was a nice way to begin 2008, in comfort!

Maarten returned to work full-time in February. I’ve missed having him home, life kind of gets boring and uneventful. Over the year I’ve been teaching English 3-4 times a week, singing in a choir, going to physio, baking Linda’s famous chocolate cakes, endless Dutch lessons… visiting people (I’m very good at that!)


My Wednesday Morning English Group!

June 10th we flew to Canada and went to Caronport for my half sister’s high school graduation. She sang in the high school musical called, “Forgiven.” It was very appropriate under the circumstances, as her mother was also there!
Here I am at Caronport with my brother Mark and my birthday present from him!
From Caronport we rode with my youngest brother Mark and his family back to Edmonton where we visited with Tony & Donna. We went to Fort Edmonton for a day, what a wonderful experience that was! From Edmonton, we flew back to Winnipeg and spent the day with the Uttley’s and then went North by bus.

We were planning on heading South in time to celebrate our 7th wedding anniversary in Winnipeg, only to cancel our plans and wait and ride South with my mom who had an appointment to see a neurologist. She is still waiting to hear the results of her last tests in November.

My sweet husband made a huge sacrifice – he wants you all to know! I had promised him that we would attend some sort of game, the Goldeyes, or the Blue Bombers, but because we stayed in Thompson longer than anticipated, he gave up what would have been his 7th wedding anniversary present! We ended up staying at a Bed & Breakfast with my mom, and then we went to stay with Dr. Kati and his family. We attended a Schutzenfest with them. (It’s a German celebration in a town called Little Britain. Someone had a sense of humour!)
Maarten and I had invited my 11 year old niece Lenea to come to Holland for the summer. It was hectic to arrange her ticket not even knowing if my brother was going to allow her to travel or not. We didn’t do it until the last minute, what a nightmare that was! God really made a way for it to happen! I was amazed once again at how He continues to meet our needs when we are at our wits end! My brother Keith came to Winnipeg with his family, and we all stayed at the Holiday Inn Airport West. They have a massive play structure there that the kids had a great time on!
Maarten flew off to Oregon for work on July 9th and Lenea and I left for Holland on the 11th. We had a good trip and arrived safely in Holland. Maarten returned to Holland the following week. Lenea had a great summer and we had a great summer having her.It was frustrating for me though, about the third week in July I got an infection in my leg. One that my GP treated with a low dosage drug, after three more weeks and a tummy full of antibiotics later, I saw my specialist who gave me two courses of high dosage antibiotics. That got me up on my legs again, but all this to tell you, I sat on my butt all summer – and was very angry about it! It was nearing the time we had to return Lenea to Canada (although she made it known loud and clear she would love to live here!)
Lenea with a friend, brought home a baby duck!
The last three weeks of August Maarten was again in Oregon and I was alone with Lenea. Thankfully she was here to help when I was so helpless! Thankfully, the families in our church stepped up to the plate and took Lenea out to the sea side, boating, swimming, and just doing fun things with her and for her. Lenea also had the opportunity to have riding lessons at a stable in the next town. She had an English speaking instructor.
One of the most difficult things for me was to find out how poor her eyesight is. I struggled with this too in my growing up years. Not nice! We were going to get Lenea glasses, but the eye specialist said that she needed contacts and glasses would not do. His price, 375 euros. I talked this over with Maarten who suggested we leave this to her parents (as he had already paid so much for her to be here!) I agreed (and that was hard for me to do!) and I prayed that God would take care of things as my hands were tied! While Maarten was still away in Oregon, we were invited to friends for supper. This family, after hearing my story of Lenea needing contacts, offered to pay the difference between what we would have paid for her glasses and the price of the contacts! How amazing that God answered prayer, and so quickly! I was so incredibly thankful that I wrote an e-mail to all my friends about this event – one person wrote back that I shouldn’t be begging overseas when Canada has a good eye care health system. I suppose what this person doesn’t know, is that Lenea is under Medical Services and they DO NOT pay for contact lenses, especially for children!

I am extremely thankful to the Lord and the kind friends who gave! It was also interesting, that when I went to pay for Lenea’s contacts, the doctor gave us an additional amount off the cost! We were amazed at God’s blessing for Lenea! Don’t get me wrong – but how come God couldn’t have been a little quicker on the uptake with my infected leg and healing so I could have done more interesting things with Lenea? I felt robbed!
I started walking with elbow crutches her last 2 weeks here. Over the summer she read a book called, “The Watchmaker’s Daughter,” the life story of Corrie ten Boom. I took her to Haarlem to see the museum in the house of Corrie, and to see Corrie’s bedroom with an opening in the wall showing the hiding place. It is so impressive. Rosa, Lenea, me and Anne at Corrie's door.Maarten and I also took her to The Hague, where the government of Holland sits, and we wandered through the tweede kamer. (The Dutch houses of Parliament.) One thing Lenea did, and I was very proud of her, was she wrote in a journal every day! Mrs. Kati had given her a book and pen, and told her that it would be a good thing to do. I had to encourage her on occasion but she did a fine job! When she is old and grey I hope she can look back at it and remember her time with us.

September 3, Lenea and I returned to Canada and stayed with George & Bessie for a couple of days before heading North, Auntie Colleen took us out for supper then took us to the bus (and Uncle Grant took us out for lunch at Smitty’s and bought Lenea a pair of jeans at Wearhouse One!

While I was in Canada for four weeks I had the opportunity to attend a women’s retreat in the Whiteshell, the food wasn’t great but it was a lovely weekend, and I got to go canoeing!

I returned to the Netherlands on October 1st.

Maarten was supposed to write the letter this year, however, as a result of work commitments he is in Oregon and I’m writing…

My legs are doing ok, I got new liners today and I hope that in a month or so the skin will be better, it is very fragile and breaks down easily. As a result, I am hardly walking and not even exercising which is something my body needs badly – the kilos keep creeping on, and I hate it.

Maarten is healthy as a horse and except for being tired sometimes in the evenings when he comes from work; he helps out a lot with cooking, he cooks on weekends, does all the laundry, takes out the garbage, does some grocery shopping during the week, and we go grocery shopping together on Saturdays – regular life things in a country where there is no Sunday shopping and no Wal-mart! I’m kind of getting used to the way they do things over here – I suppose I am a bit of a slow learner.

Today I shared a Charlie Brown Christmas with my students. I hoped that it would give them something to think about as the real meaning of Christmas might be missed in this day and age. When Charlie Brown complains about the overwhelming materialism that he sees amongst everyone during the Christmas season, Lucy suggests that he become director of the school Christmas pageant. Charlie Brown accepts, but it proves to be a frustrating struggle. When an attempt to restore the proper spirit with a forlorn little fir Christmas tree fails, he needs Linus' help to learn what the real meaning of Christmas is. It was a good reminder for me too!
One thing I know for sure, God has given me a great husband and I am thankful – he is a great guy! Maarten has bought a book (in Dutch) about immigrating to Canada! We’re not sure what is ahead – but we are seeking God’s will, and if you could take time to pray for us, knowing what to do about our future, we would appreciate it.

I’ll close with a quote from Wilda English, “God grant you the light in Christmas, which is faith; the warmth of Christmas, which is love; the radiance of Christmas, which is purity; the righteousness of Christmas, which is justice; the belief in Christmas, which is truth; the all of Christmas, which is Christ.”

Wherever you find yourself this Christmas have a happy & blessed one.

P.S. Linda allowed me to write the closing paragraph of this year’s letter. I think she did a great job! This year once again flew by at 100km/h. At least that is how fast it seemed. I am feeling much better, though different. Being that close to the call home has changed my focus on life and what is important in life. I strongly feel and believe that Linda and I are at some turning point or crossroads in our lives. We pray a lot for wisdom and guidance in this matter, feel free to join us. We need it…. The difference between the choice of the heart and the choice of the mind I guess. Hmmm I see I have two lines left ;-)) Must close, so to speak. My prayer is that all of you may find a very peaceful, warm and wonderful Christmas. We will think of you and if you think of us then through distance we will be together in mind. Love you all, Maarten. Gezegend kerstfeest!! (That’s Dutch) ;-))
Just a picture of our enormous tree!

Thursday, February 28, 2008

Christmas letter 2007

December 2007

Dear Family & Friends,

Here we are on Canadian soil for Christmas! Our first Christmas here since 2002. What a year it has been. On February 22, I flew to Canada to be with my mom for her 70th birthday – she doesn’t want anyone to know her age (so don’t tell!)

I enjoyed my 41 days in Canada and Maarten missed me terribly. He has decided that I can never be away from home (or him) so long ever again… For those of you we will have the privilege of seeing over this holiday you will get to see the book I made of “My Visit Home.”

The year has gone quickly and for the most part, un-eventful.

Maarten’s mother turned 81 in May. I turned 45 in June. Birthdays are a big thing in Holland – and we enjoy them. My friend Esther took me to a real lived in Castle for my birthday - it was a special treat!

June brought Canadian visitors from America. We only had a weekend to squeeze in the best we could to show them what life is like in the Netherlands. Lots of bike riding did the trick, and they enjoyed their time with us. Although I must say, it was way too short.

Maarten and I spent our 6th anniversary at the Westin Hotel in Rotterdam! That was special. Everyone spoke English, and we had a grand room – beautiful views – huge windows! A lovely time!
As many of you know August 21st, Maarten was just about home from work when an aneurysm that he had in his head since “who knows how long” began to leak. He had an instant headache with neck cramps; he was sweating profusely and weak with clammy hands. My response was, “Do you want an Advil?” This was the sort of thing I was unsure of. I grabbed an ice pack and put it behind his neck – grabbed the phone and called Dr. Penner. He wasn’t home, but his daughter Catherine was, and she suggested I take him to Emergency.

We called friends, who took us to the hospital, and after the first doctor saw him, she called the Neurologist. What ended up happening was, they did a CT scan, and sent us off to The Hague in an ambulance. Maarten was not allowed to walk again. The following day they tried a procedure known as “Coiling” where they inserted a catheter in his groin area and pushed a wire thread into his brain to fill up the 1.5 cm aneurysm. This did not work and after 2.5 hours they brought him back to Intensive Care. The following day they took him into surgery again, and opened up his head to “clip” the aneurysm. Maarten is now safe! (They used 2 clips!) Photo of MCH Westeinde Hospital in The Hague.

Someone asked me if he is “alright,” Maarten is exceptional! He naturally had moments of being afraid throughout this ordeal, but he also had a dependence on God, that everything would be ok.

My biggest prayer was that God would bring him through this still Maarten. In February 2002 Maarten’s oldest sister had a stroke and she has been left changed, living with a disability, right arm and leg not functioning and she cannot speak in sentences. I was afraid I would end up with a husband with a disability. I really pleaded with God, that one person in a family with a disability was enough – and I had that position! God really has changed us – I am more thankful for my dear hubby! He has a thankful heart to God for giving him more time. Looking at the statistics, the number of people with aneurysms who do not even make it to the hospital is around 50%.

God has been gracious to us. Thankfully he placed people in our lives to love and care for us through this. Géke and Geert, the couple who first took us to the hospital, did my laundry for two weeks, and drove it back and forth, to me in The Hague. They came to see Maarten and me, and to take me out of the hospital for a change of scenery. Laetitia, a friend who lives in The Hague, also came to take me out for coffee and show me around so I saw more than hospital walls. Maarten’s boss, Wim, a man who also loves the Lord, came every week to see Maarten and the company has been very good to us.

The Wednesday afternoon of Maarten’s coiling procedure, the mission organization that Maarten does the website for, “Children Asking” held a special prayer meeting at their office – and they were praying in Brazil too. Our church had a special Wednesday evening prayer meeting to pray specifically for Maarten and what he was going through. In fact, people were praying all over the world. Laetitia had put us on the Hour of Power prayer chain, and they pray through the time zones for two weeks! Maarten was covered with prayer. God heard!
This picture was taken on November 5th at a special Gala Evening in Rotterdam. It was a fund-raiser for “Children Asking” and over 45,000 euros was raised that evening. We had a lovely time, and it was Maarten’s first outing except for Physio.

On November 21st, Maarten returned to his work part-time, 4 hours a day. He loves being there. In fact, in January we are going to Portland, Oregon again, for his work. What a wonderful opportunity we’ve been given. We are so thankful! Photo is the view from our room at the Marriott Downtown Waterfront!

We expect to return to Holland around the 20th of January. We will be at home in Thompson, at my mom’s from around December 20th to sometime in early January, not exactly sure when.~

We are praising God and giving Him the glory, great things He has done!

Wishing you and yours all the best this Christmas, and in the New Year to come.
Pisew Falls, Manitoba